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Kindness creates social harmony.

​Social Harmony through Education


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Syrendell is banking on kindness as the solution to social problems plaguing our nation's institutions. Cut through the complexities of the systems of justice, government, and business, and at the core is the human to human exchange of thoughts, words, and actions. If those thoughts were of hate for the other, if those words were of shaming and degrading the other, if those actions were of harmful intent for the other, then the systems we build will be inherently unjust and unfair.

Now, if those thoughts, words, and actions were of kindness for each other, imagine the systems we can all create.  Imagine how we can dismantle and reform unjust, broken systems with simple kindness. Together, through educating children and adults, we create a world of social harmony. Join us in our Pledge to Kindness.
There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness.
​-- Dalai Lama

Pledge to Kindness

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  • To Engage in Learning | We incorporate the values of equality, freedom, and compassion in all our teaching and instructional platforms for staff, students, and community, so we may demonstrate kindness and understanding.
  • To Cultivate a Safe Sanctuary | We foster a kind and caring environment that is safe, judgement-free, and protected, holding ourselves responsible for honoring all as unique individuals. 
  • To Advocate for Diversity | We cultivate a company culture that embraces people of all color, faiths, gender, partnerships, experiences, and capacities within our company, with our students and clients, and with businesses we work with.
  • To Be Accountable | We are vigilant in analyzing our processes, examining our content, imagery, words, and actions to be aligned with our core commitment to kindness and social harmony.
Our brand of democracy is hard. But I can promise that a year from now, when I no longer hold this office, I'll be right there with you as a citizen - inspired by those voices of fairness and vision, of grit and good humor and kindness that have helped America travel so far.
​-- Barack Obama

​Kindness is Learned

 
​As educators, we understand the power of knowledge and embrace the role that children have in shaping a more just future. We ask that you join us in reading these resources and putting them into action with your children, whether you are a teacher, homeschooling parent, caregiver, or friend: “
How to Talk to Kids About Race: Books and Resources That Can Help” by Olugbemisola Rhuday-Perkovich and “Not Sure How to Talk to Your Kids About Race? Here’s How to Start” by Ojus Patel. We hope that this can provide a starting point for our friends and followers. 

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Here are recommended reading for you and the children. Click on the book covers to take you to Amazon to purchase your book!​
ADULT
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PICTURE BOOKS
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MIDDLE GRADE
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YOUNG ADULT
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​ABOUT THE WARMTH OF OTHER SUNS

In this epic, beautifully written masterwork, Pulitzer Prize–winning author Isabel Wilkerson chronicles one of the great untold stories of American history: the decades-long migration of black citizens who fled the South for northern and western cities, in search of a better life.

“[A] deeply affecting, finely crafted and heroic book. . . .Wilkerson has taken on one of the most important demographic upheavals of the past century—a phenomenon whose dimensions and significance have eluded many a scholar—and told it through the lives of three people no one has ever heard of….This is narrative nonfiction, lyrical and tragic and fatalist. The story exposes; the story moves; the story ends. What Wilkerson urges, finally, isn’t argument at all; it’s compassion. Hush, and listen.”  —Jill Lepore, The New Yorker

Buy the book here!

​A Starting Point for Anti-Racist Awareness and Action


​Kindness is learned. Racism is one issue that creates social disharmony, and for us to make a change, we need to educate ourselves and our children. This is a list compiled by Joey Tan, Inclusion Specialist for Tan Weddings & Events, and Elita McFadden, MA.

HISTORY & CONTEXT of RACISM

Historical Foundations of Race | Article
Smithsonian National Museum of African American History & Culture
“American society developed the notion of race early in its formation to justify its new economic system of capitalism, which depended on the institution of forced labor, especially the enslavement of African peoples. To more accurately understand how race and its counterpart, racism, are woven into the very fabric of American society, we must explore the history of how race, white privilege, and anti-blackness came to be.”

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Ava DuVernay
“Combining archival footage with testimony from activists and scholars, director Ava DuVernay's examination of the U.S. prison system looks at how the country's history of racial inequality drives the high rate of incarceration in America.”

Being Antiracist | Article
Smithsonian National Museum of African American History & Culture
“While individual choices are damaging, racist ideas in policy have a wide-spread impact by threatening the equity of our systems and the fairness of our institutions. To create an equal society, we must commit to making unbiased choices and being antiracist in all aspects of our lives.”

How to be an Antiracist | Video
Ibram X. Kendi
“‘The only way to undo racism is to consistently identify and describe it — and then dismantle it,’ writes professor Ibram X. Kendi. That is the essence of antiracism: the action that must follow both emotional and intellectual awareness of racism. Kendi sits down with journalist Jemele Hill to explore what an antiracist society might look like, how we can play an active role in building it, and what being an antiracist in your own context might mean..”

OPPRESSION, INTROSPECTION, & APPLICATION

Racial Healing Handbook | Handout
Anneliese A. Singh
“In so many ways, to heal from racism, you must re-educate yourself and unlearn the processes of racism. This book can help guide you.” This handout from the book serves as a brief antiracism primer for both white and non-Black people of color.

So You Wanna Talk About Race | eBook: $10.99
Ijeoma Oluo
“...Oluo guides readers of all races through subjects ranging from intersectionality and affirmative action to ‘model minorities’ in an attempt to make the seemingly impossible possible: honest conversations about race and racism, and how they infect almost every aspect of American life.”

The Book is Anti-Racist | eBook: $2.99
Tiffany Jewell
“Gain a deeper understanding of your anti-racist self as you progress through 20 chapters that spark introspection, reveal the origins of racism that we are still experiencing and give you the courage and power to undo it.”

Me and White Supremacy | eBook: $2.99
Layla F. Saad
“This eye-opening book challenges you to do the essential work of unpacking your biases, and helps white people take action and dismantle the privilege within themselves so that you can stop (often unconsciously) inflicting damage on people of color, and in turn, help other white people do better, too.”

INSTITUTIONAL CHANGE

Continuum on Becoming an Anti-Racist, Multicultural Institution | PDF
Crossroads Ministry
A continuum that progressively highlights the institutional conditions correlated with leading anti-racist change.

Here’s what I’m doing to build anti-racism into my business | Blog Post
Krista Walsh
“I believe small businesses will play a big role in our slow clambering out of our racist systems. Part of that is because single-person businesses like mine have the ability to change their structure, their decisions, and their goals as quickly as a person can. So, as I work on unlearning racism in my personal life and interactions with the world, I want my business to transform alongside me.”

The Anti-racist Small Business Pledge | PDF
Rachel Rodgers
A five-point pledge to antiracism for small businesses.

​Racial Justice at Work: What Can Businesses Do? | Virtual Panel
Fri, June 19, 2020, 9:30am - 10:30am PDT
Suffolk University
“What can and should businesses be doing to address racial injustice at this difficult time? What can be gained by acting swiftly, and what actions will have the most impact? What are the consequences of inaction by the business community? Join us and a panel of three Boston business leaders experienced in driving positive change around diversity and inclusion for this urgent discussion.”
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​Spotlight: Sojourner Truth

Who Was Sojourner Truth?
Sojourner Truth was an African American abolitionist and women's rights activist best-known for her speech on racial inequalities, "Ain't I a Woman?", delivered extemporaneously in 1851 at the Ohio Women's Rights Convention. 

Truth was born into slavery but escaped with her infant daughter to freedom in 1826. She devoted her life to the abolitionist cause and helped to recruit Black troops for the Union Army. Although Truth began her career as an abolitionist, the reform causes she sponsored were broad and varied, including prison reform, property rights and universal suffrage. 

Family
Historians estimate that Truth (born Isabella Baumfree) was likely born around 1797 in the town of Swartekill, in Ulster County, New York. However, Truth's date of birth was not recorded, as was typical of children born into slavery.  

Truth was one of as many as 12 children born to James and Elizabeth Baumfree. Her father, James Baumfree, was a slave captured in modern-day Ghana. Her mother, Elizabeth Baumfree, also known as Mau-Mau Bet, was the daughter of slaves from Guinea. 

Early Life as a Slave
The Baumfree family was owned by Colonel Hardenbergh, and lived at the colonel's estate in Esopus, New York, 95 miles north of New York City. The area had once been under Dutch control, and both the Baumfrees and the Hardenbaughs spoke Dutch in their daily lives.

After the colonel's death, ownership of the Baumfrees passed to his son, Charles. The Baumfrees were separated after the death of Charles Hardenbergh in 1806. The 9-year-old Truth, known as "Belle" at the time, was sold at an auction with a flock of sheep for $100. Her new owner was a man named John Neely, whom Truth remembered as harsh and violent.

Read the entire article here.




Institutional Change Begins with Kindness

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Photo by Andrew Harnik, AP, of Rep. Andy Kim, D-NJ.
The insurrection at the Capitol in January 2021 can be framed in a dramatic lens as a clash of ideologies. But when you strip it of headline-grabbing verbiage, it's nothing more than a deplorable example of fellow humans breaking the Golden Rule.  Quite simply, it was a mob throwing all decency out the door. Whether thugs are ransacking the US Capitol building, a symbol of national pride, or rioters breaking in and stealing from a small family-owned deli, no one has the right to barge into a space and wreak havoc. 

Aside from THE pandemic is another pandemic, an American endemic, really, of which the sacking of the Capitol is a symptom. Representative Kim is just one man, shown in this picture, of what all of us have to deal with: members of our society that lack respect and decency. This is a sickness that affects all of us. Sometimes fatally.

From an article written by Claire Wang for NBC News, on the viral picture of Andy Kim, she quotes Kim: “The depth of the divisions that we have isn’t something any single law can wipe off the face of our planet,” he said. “We also need to recognize that how we get through that is by seeing the humanity in each other. There are ways we can have debates and disagreements but not resort to violence.”

If we are to eradicate hate and violence, however stirred by institutional structures, we will not see change unless it happens at the human level. Perhaps symbolic in Kim kneeling down at the floor of the Capitol, this is where we need to address our American problems, at the ground level, a personal level where each of us, quite simply, must seek a foundation of kindness.

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The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically. Intelligence plus character - that is the goal of true education.
-- Martin Luther King, Jr

Martin Luther King, Jr's words continue to inspire us - the quote above is one particulary poignant for us as educators. For leaders fighting for social justice, those words fuel action. Crystal Echo Hawk,  founder and exectuvie director of a Native-led non-profit group, gleaned from Dr. King  that racial injustice is perpetrated through "false origin myths" of our nation, and inaccurate portrayals of people of color.

Echo Hawk says, "To create a just world, all people of every race, ethnicity, sexuality, gender expression, and age, must stand together and tell truthful stories about our past and hopeful stories about our future." 

​Read this article by Nicole Chavez, for CNN, on how Martin Luther King inspires many with his words. And their words inspire others, and inspire action towards that better future.

Where Can We Find Light? | Amanda Gorman | January 20, 2021

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Photo Credit | Getty Images
At Inauguration Day 2021, a historical one in many ways, one of the voices we all heard was from a 22 year old named Amanda Gorman, National Youth Poet Laureate. She is the youngest poet to take the stage at a presidential inauguration. Her words were moving, made even more so by her presence, her vitality, her authenticity. 

If you can believe in a future that is filled with light, light from inside all of us, then you will understand where Amanda Gorman was speaking from, and we can all join her, Joe Biden and Kamala Harris to really unite this country in the spirit of love and light.

Here is a transcript of her poem, The Hill We Climb:

When day comes we ask ourselves,
where can we find light in this never-ending shade?
The loss we carry,
a sea we must wade
We've braved the belly of the beast
We've learned that quiet isn't always peace
And the norms and notions
of what just is
Isn’t always just-ice
And yet the dawn is ours
before we knew it
Somehow we do it
Somehow we've weathered and witnessed
a nation that isn’t broken
but simply unfinished
We the successors of a country and a time
Where a skinny Black girl
descended from slaves and raised by a single mother
can dream of becoming president
only to find herself reciting for one
And yes we are far from polished
far from pristine
but that doesn’t mean we are
striving to form a union that is perfect
We are striving to forge a union with purpose
To compose a country committed to all cultures, colors, characters and
conditions of man
And so we lift our gazes not to what stands between us
but what stands before us
We close the divide because we know, to put our future first,
we must first put our differences aside
We lay down our arms
so we can reach out our arms
to one another
We seek harm to none and harmony for all
Let the globe, if nothing else, say this is true:
That even as we grieved, we grew
That even as we hurt, we hoped
That even as we tired, we tried
That we’ll forever be tied together, victorious
Not because we will never again know defeat
but because we will never again sow division
Scripture tells us to envision
that everyone shall sit under their own vine and fig tree
And no one shall make them afraid
If we’re to live up to our own time
Then victory won’t lie in the blade
But in all the bridges we’ve made
That is the promise to glade
The hill we climb
If only we dare
It's because being American is more than a pride we inherit,
it’s the past we step into
and how we repair it
We’ve seen a force that would shatter our nation
rather than share it
Would destroy our country if it meant delaying democracy
And this effort very nearly succeeded
But while democracy can be periodically delayed
it can never be permanently defeated
In this truth
in this faith we trust
For while we have our eyes on the future
history has its eyes on us
This is the era of just redemption
We feared at its inception
We did not feel prepared to be the heirs
of such a terrifying hour
but within it we found the power
to author a new chapter
To offer hope and laughter to ourselves
So while once we asked,
how could we possibly prevail over catastrophe?
Now we assert
How could catastrophe possibly prevail over us?
We will not march back to what was
but move to what shall be
A country that is bruised but whole,
benevolent but bold,
fierce and free
We will not be turned around
or interrupted by intimidation
because we know our inaction and inertia
will be the inheritance of the next generation
Our blunders become their burdens
But one thing is certain:
If we merge mercy with might,
and might with right,
then love becomes our legacy
and change our children’s birthright
So let us leave behind a country
better than the one we were left with
Every breath from my bronze-pounded chest,
we will raise this wounded world into a wondrous one
We will rise from the gold-limbed hills of the west,
we will rise from the windswept northeast
where our forefathers first realized revolution
We will rise from the lake-rimmed cities of the midwestern states,
we will rise from the sunbaked south
We will rebuild, reconcile and recover
and every known nook of our nation and
every corner called our country,
our people diverse and beautiful will emerge,
battered and beautiful
When day comes we step out of the shade,
aflame and unafraid
The new dawn blooms as we free it
For there is always light,
if only we’re brave enough to see it
If only we’re brave enough to be it

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